But the Law of Attraction doesn't work for me!
I cannot tell you how many times I have heard or read this on-line. Some people find out about the Law of Attraction and only understand it on a very superficial level. They misunderstand the Law of Attraction to be some magical tool and if they wish hard enough surely whatever they want will manifest. When this doesn't immediately happen they get disheartened and discard the Law of Attraction as rubbish. Maybe you are one of those people? If you are... I have good news for you. Not only does the Law of Attraction work.....it is working in your life right now as you read this post!
A good analogy is gravity. Do you think gravity is magic? Of course not. Most people correctly believe it to be a scientifically understood process. The Law of Attraction is exactly the same. Its not some mumbo jumbo magical process but instead a scientific law that operate in everyone's lives all the time whether they believe it or not. The same as gravity.
So the question is not whether it works but how to make it work for me?
Well the answer is more than just asking for what you want and hoping for the best. It is a matter of life choices. To really harness it to work for you is truly a life style. As Abraham Hicks so beautifully put it.....its about following your bliss. Your emotions are your compass telling you whether you are on the right track or not. Simply put, whilst you are feeling good you are attracting great things into your life....another word commonly used for this is "allowing". If you are feeling negative emotions you are generally attracting more negative things into your life.
So the choices you make in your life....to choose whether to allow positive and good feeling thoughts versus negative and bad feeling thoughts and following up on that by doing what makes you feel happy is the difference between failure or success in harnessing the Law of Attraction. Even negative experiences can have a positive spin put on them by understanding that they create contrast. If you know what you don't want, it creates contrast which shows you what you do want and by following and focusing on the solution rather than the problem you can turn things around immediately.
Tools such as Dream Boards and Wish lists, Affirmations, Visualising and Meditation (click on the links for detailed posts on these) all have their place in helping you hone your skills and achieving what you hope, wish and dream about, but at the end of the day your emotions give you the indicator as to whether you are on the right path. You are the creator of your own destiny, make sure you are creating your hearts desires!
Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.